Rant: The breakdown of society is due to cowards who like to pretend to be real men.

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Man I gotta say some of the story's on this thread are making me really grateful for my fiancee... as long as I am responsible and dont cut into say a vacation fund or something for the family i can buy whatever I want and in return I respect her wishes about where I can xxx... relationships in this society are in the gutter because everyone is an entitled ass who has lost the ability to compromise and dont respect eachother anymore.
 
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Hmm. As a confirmed bachelor, all I can say is whores are cheap, more fun in the sack, and gone when you bring home a new gun, or three more whores.

If you take a look at the fine print on your marriage license, it affirms that marriage automatically makes you henpecked married pussies beta males by default.

Now go mow your lawn bitch.
You got it figured out😂😂
 

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Man I gotta say some of the story's on this thread are making me really grateful for my fiancee... as long as I am responsible and dont cut into say a vacation fund or something for the family i can buy whatever I want and in return I respect her wishes about where I can xxx... relationships in this society are in the gutter because everyone is an entitled ass who has lost the ability to compromise and dont respect eachother anymore.
The operative word in your post is "fiancee". Expect her to be OK with about 60% (of what she is ok with now) on the day after you get married. Now, whether 60% is good or not depends on what you start with. Choose wisely.
 

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Nowadays, especially in a state like Illinois, the stay at home wife with 3 kids could be banging the gardener and still stay in the house with you paying for everything plus a little extra. Believe me, these women carry that around in their back pocket.

This is true. Well, this is true if they do not work and if they do not bring in close to the same money as you do if they do work. It’s sad how the courts allow the lazy to prey upon the productive. That’s why I tell every single guy that’s looking to get married they need to only consider women with a similar income earning potential or a iron clad pre-nump. Otherwise, it often becomes too tempting for them when they find out how much they can rape you for. I’ve personally seen it happen to many times to to many nice guys. When women go over the edge, they typically don’t just stick a toe over to test the water; they go all Thelma and Louise and go all the way.

My advice, if you are hiding stuff because you think your woman will get pissed and it could lead to divorce, do yourself a favor and “press to test” now and find out, because you are not saving yourself from anything that won’t happen down the road. Might as well get it over with now and get on with life.

Life is a journey and it’s a heck of a lot more enjoyable with a wonderful companion who wants to journey with you. If you and your wife have lost that desire and are on separate journeys, then you owe it to yourself and her as alpha to honestly attempt to get on the same path without loosing yourself or her loosing herself. If you should find that’s not possible, well cut your losses and move on cauzzz if you are the bread winner, the law is not on your side even if she goes rouge. People don’t typically change, they are who they are. Holding out for a major change with a relationally difficult wife is a fools errand.

Rant over.......
 

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The wife and myself both work and we always include each other in all “major” purchases. She has never said a word to me and I have never said anything to her about spending. We can do this, because I set a firm baseline when we married for our financials and as long as we don’t become excessive everything is cool. Saying this, all final decisions are mine period, but she is my wife and I want to include her on everything. It would be stupid to try to subvert her or not include her. The I do what I want attitude is stupid and gets you no in a marriage. Hell most of the time my purchases such as binos, guns, reloading equip is pushed by her.
 

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General Observations:

1. If you run around calling yourself an alpha male, you aren’t one.

2. If you can’t trust and be 100% open with the one you married, then why are you married to them?

3. Marry your best friend and you’ll be ahead of the rest.

4. If you have to sneak guns into the house and can’t look the one you married in the eye and tell them what you’ve done, you’re a fucking coward and your marriage is a dumpster fire. By doing so you are saying that you married an idiot that you don’t respect.

5. If you refer to your wife as a bitch or use her as an excuse to back out of things even though it’s your own decision, you’re the bitch.

6. If you’re on your 3rd marriage and think “all women are crazy”, maybe the problem can be found by looking in the mirror.

7. The whole “my grandfather ran the house and his wife” is toxic and from an era when women were openly treated like shit and viewed more as property than a partner. If you think those were the good ol days and how it needs to be, you’re the problem, not society.

8. Review number one again.
 

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Does it count as a sneaking in guns if you waltz in by your wife with a box that says ashbury precision ordnance shaped like a rifle she asks what is that another gun? I said sarcastically no. She said it says ordnance on the box. I said ammo then went to my gun room to privately fondle my new purchase.
My policy is I don't ask for permission.
Nor do I require her to ask permission. She can buy all the guns she can afford. P.S. we have been married 42 years.
 

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Does it count as a sneaking in guns if you waltz in by your wife with a box that says ashbury precision ordnance shaped like a rifle she asks what is that another gun? I said sarcastically no. She said it says ordnance on the box. I said ammo then went to my gun room to privately fondle my new purchase.
My policy is I don't ask for permission.
Nor do I require her to ask permission. She can buy all the guns she can afford. P.S. we have been married 42 years.
Depends on your waltz form haha
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Actually, it works better like this.

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That's an actual response from Rebecca.

I had a rifle sitting out last night and she asked me if it was out because it wouldn't fit in the safe.
I told her I could probably get it in there but I might need to remove the scope.

She said we are probably going to need another safe if we're gonna keep buying guns.
 
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Actually, it works better like this.

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That's an actual response from Rebecca.

I had a rifle sitting out last night and she asked me if it was out because it wouldn't fit in the safe.
I told her I could probably get it in there but I might need to remove the scope.

She said we are probably going to need another safe if we're gonna keep buying guns.
Just an FYI, you didn’t blur out Becky Boo’s number.
 

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I noticed that, but it's available on line with about 20 seconds of effort.
I'll blur it out and repost. Thanks.

PS, my daughter grabbed my phone almost six years ago and changed Rebecca's name in it.
It's kinda funny that I don't have it in me to change it back.
 
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Friend of mine has a huge collection of guns and the way he did it is that you tell your wife your going to the gun range and you leave the house with a empty gun case and you come home with a new gun in that gun case.

The breakdown of society and real men started when they sold strap-on dildos to married women because it sounds like there's a lot of dudes on this site with sore asses.
 

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I love this woman. Real men get penalized for being real. The laws and the courts are against us.


What is surprising is that this lesbian writer sympathizes with men. She goes undercover as a man and realizes how stressful modern society has made it for males.

 
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I love this woman. Real men get penalized for being real. The laws and the courts are against us.


What is surprising is that this lesbian writer sympathizes with men. She goes undercover as a man and realizes how stressful modern society has made it for males.

I can’t think of a time I’ve been penalized by society nor can I recall a time that society has made anything stressful for me...unless you’re talking about shitty drivers lol. Sure, that’s not a meaningful sample size to make a blanket statement, but I’m willing to bet if each American male was objective with their response and media influence wasn’t a factor, you’d probably be hard pressed to find any meaningful national numbers that support what social media states.

...unless you’re talking about that asshole that gets mad because he’s yelled at in a Golden Corral because he grabbed his server’s ass and called her hunny. Then I’m sure he’d objectively state that your life is an example of how “men” can’t be “men” anymore.

But seriously though, the whole “men have it bad and it’s scary out there for real men now because we aren’t allowed to be real men anymore” is pretty stupid and risks becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy.
 

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I can’t think of a time I’ve been penalized by society nor can I recall a time that society has made anything stressful for me...unless you’re talking about shitty drivers lol. Sure, that’s not a meaningful sample size to make a blanket statement, but I’m willing to bet if each American male was objective with their response and media influence wasn’t a factor, you’d probably be hard pressed to find any meaningful national numbers that support what social media states.

...unless you’re talking about that asshole that gets mad because he’s yelled at in a Golden Corral because he grabbed his server’s ass and called her hunny. Then I’m sure he’d objectively state that your life is an example of how “men” can’t be “men” anymore.

But seriously though, the whole “men have it bad and it’s scary out there for real men now because we aren’t allowed to be real men anymore” is pretty stupid and risks becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Divorced twice and female judges. I don't need to say anymore.
 

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I ain't never getting married. If I need some poon I just dial up an old GF, they know to keep the touchy-feely shit to themselves. People in general are so goddamn meddlesome and lonely I honestly can't stand most of them up in my life at all. That said, there are good women out there for good men and shit can be hunky-dory if that's your thing.
 

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What @M8541Reaper said!
Marrying my best friend that shares my interests was the key for me. Having a lady that calls me on my shit, is adventurous and is competitive didn’t hurt.
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Dude mine calls me on my shit all the time haha! But yep, that's what it is all about man. ...Keeps me on my toes at the range as well lol
 
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I'd bet that most of these guys are really just kidding. I've been married 61 years (yes, sixty-one) and have never had to hide a purchase from my wife. But that has never stopped me from joking about different ways to sneak a new gun in the house. I'm kidding, and my buds know I'm kidding, just as I don't take them seriously when they do the same.
 

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I can’t think of a time I’ve been penalized by society nor can I recall a time that society has made anything stressful for me...unless you’re talking about shitty drivers lol. Sure, that’s not a meaningful sample size to make a blanket statement, but I’m willing to bet if each American male was objective with their response and media influence wasn’t a factor, you’d probably be hard pressed to find any meaningful national numbers that support what social media states.
So you think your personal experience is a meaningful sample set? Maybe instead of bragging about what a cuck you are, and telling the rest of us we should be a cuck too, you might recognize that there are just as many female assholes (and potentially more) than there are male assholes. I'm happy your overlord turned out not to be a gold-digging bitch, or a narcissist, or whatever, but you aren't the norm buddy, you just have a total lack of experience that gives you no perspective on the issue, and no information to develop understanding.
 
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So you think your personal experience is a meaningful sample set? Maybe instead of bragging about what a cuck you are, and telling the rest of us we should be a cuck too, you might recognize that there are just as many female assholes (and potentially more) than there are male assholes. I'm happy your overlord turned out not to be a gold-digging bitch, or a narcissist, or whatever, but you aren't the norm buddy, you just have a total lack of experience that gives you no perspective on the issue, and no information to develop understanding.
Who hurt you?
The issue isn’t the number or gender of assholes. The issue is that life isn’t getting harder for men nor is it more stressful lol.
Sorry I didn’t fuck up and think before I act. If that makes me a cuck, then I guess I’m a cuck. Maybe in my next simulation I’ll fuck up more and learn the hard way so I can gain experience lol.
(Help. My overload is making me say this. I’m just a cuck that can’t do anything for myself.)
 
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Quick question for all of the squat to piss bunch.
Does she check with you before buying a purse or another 300.00 pair of shoes?

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Several years ago before Her Ladyship left and I found out what it was like to be free again I had to sell some of my prized shooting irons.

I was practically in tears, walking out the door, to sell one of my cherished rifles to make ends meet each month. She had as much sympathy as a komodo dragon eating a baby chick.

She never bothered to sell any of the jewelry that I gave her. Not only that I found out that the Ice Queen was saving the money I gave her each month to divorce me. She was driving the car that I was making payments on to go get laid as well.

Life has a way of catching up to people like that. She's over the hill now and fat. She reminds me of the komodo dragon she emulated so much. She's bankrupt and can't pay her bills. She's aged so much that her face looks like hammered lead.

What surprises me is how fast she can go on her broom despite the extra weight she's carrying.

Me: I never knew what freedom was like till she left. I sleep like a baby at night. When I get up early, I'm rested, refreshed and thankful for my life.

I turn on all the lights in the morning and don't have to worry about being quiet and enjoy the coffee as I read the postings on SH then off to work or play with my guns!

Don't know if that answered your questions but I sure feel better!
 

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Several years ago before Her Ladyship left and I found out what it was like to be free again I had to sell some of my prized shooting irons.

I was practically in tears, walking out the door, to sell one of my cherished rifles to make ends meet each month. She had as much sympathy as a komodo dragon eating a baby chick.

She never bothered to sell any of the jewelry that I gave her. Not only that I found out that the Ice Queen was saving the money I gave her each month to divorce me. She was driving the car that I was making payments on to go get laid as well.

Life has a way of catching up to people like that. She's over the hill now and fat. She reminds me of the komodo dragon she emulated so much. She's bankrupt and can't pay her bills. She's aged so much that her face looks like hammered lead.

What surprises me is how fast she can go on her broom despite the extra weight she's carrying.

Me: I never knew what freedom was like till she left. I sleep like a baby at night. When I get up early, I'm rested, refreshed and thankful for my life.

I turn on all the lights in the morning and don't have to worry about being quiet and enjoy the coffee as I read the postings on SH then off to work or play with my guns!

Don't know if that answered your questions but I sure feel better!
While my above reply was a little heavy handed I was really trying to make a point.
If a guy is married he should be able to make purchasing decisions without the say so of the other half.
This is a result of trusting one another with most anything.
A two way street that is shared.

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We have her money, my money, and our money, neither could give 2 shits where it is spent, or on what, within reason . But my wife would be more on the conniving side than myself, not in the form of hiding anything, but the cost of it.
She brought home, or I had to go pick it up, what she dubbed an antique side table. A fucking pile of shit with a 4" thick old cutting board, supposedly 19th century, a moRon can plainly see the accompanying stand not 1800's, so I had to ask, how much, 400.
Fast forward 6-7 yrs and it surfaces the bill was 1400 bucks, the fucking piece of shit pissed me off at 400. Now the POS holds rocks, fancy rocks, some more money than glock pistols. I refuse to even look at that side of the room and hope she piles enough rocks on it that it collapses some day. Then my expertise can enter with, "no way can we redo the bottom stand" and take a chainsaw to it.
Rant over, I could care less what you guys hide from your wives. If you are giving her best friend the high hard one, by all means keep it a secret.
 
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I snuck a new gun in the house last night.

I work outside all winter and drink beer and have a frisky woman.

Call me a pussy.
 

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I haven't been married very long. but i've never had to ask my wife to buy anything. that's ridiculous. I have many friends who literally can't do anything/buy anything without running it past their wives first. And 90% of the time it's "no". it's embarrassing and they've become incredibly boring people who i don't really hang out with anymore.

the other day i was in my friends living room with him and his wife and literally in the same 15 minutes he got "denied" buying a cheap $150 rod/reel combo because his broke and then immediately his wife orders a pair of expensive earrings on the internet for a wedding this past weekend. i was floored.

what is it with these guys? why did you let yourself get into a situation like that where she controls everything you do? how is that fun? how is that a relationship? i guess i get it - everyone is different and people see things different. whatever then - better them than me.


"oh wait until you've been married as long as we have (wow 5 years: good job buddy) you'll know what it's like" - they say

miss me with that shit. not everyone's marriage has to be boring and miserable like yours. you stay inside and do pointless chores every weekend while me and my wife go do fun shit and make memories. you sorry sap.

I've had buddies miss coming to a FREE silencer/gun demo 10 minutes from their house because their wife wanted them to stay home for no reason.

i had a buddy miss a yearly memorial camping trip last minute because they needed to take professional christmas card photos with their wife. like dude - it's 2019 you have a perfectly good camera in your hand.

i wouldn't really care except later on i have to hear "man you get to do all this fun shit all the time. must be nice. i haven't fished in forever. i haven't shot my gun in forever. man you are gone every weekend shooting and stuff - that's awesome i'm so jealous."

i just laugh at them now. it's so comical.

i stress myself out because i try to plan and do all these unique activities and invite everyone and the damn excuses i get drive me crazy. and 98% of the time it's because of the wife stopping it.

I've asked these people before .... "when is the last activity you did that you WANTED to be doing. that you had a wholesome, fun, memory making experience?" usually they don't have an answer. Then they ask me the same question and i rattle off like every weekend of the entire year - all the stuff ive done. matches, camping trips, hiking trips, going to the lake, fishing, traveling, etc. they do 1 fun thing a year. it's a miserable existence - and usually it's their wife causing it for whatever damn reason i can't figure it out.

we are in are late 20's early 30's. we are still young, what a terrible trajectory to be on.

also - 3 of the people/couples i've mentioned - at least 1 person in each relationship is having to see a "specialist" for "depression/not finding value in life" One is even self-harming.


i've lost 2 parents to suicide - i take that shit seriously its not a joke. but come on folks - you are consciously making you and your significant other's lives miserable and can't figure why?

sad.

rant over.
A++ on the rant

I just rolled over the 30 yr mark myself (marriage not age) and we wouldn't have lasted 30 days had our relationship had been like that you describe about your gelded friends.
 

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Who hurt you?
The issue isn’t the number or gender of assholes. The issue is that life isn’t getting harder for men nor is it more stressful lol.
And how do you know how hard life is for the rest of us? What's the divorce rate now, 60% ? Most of us, are seeing a side of our legal system, you have not experienced. You are not qualified to make such a statement, nor opine on that which you know but little.

As for marriage, how much would a reasonable man bet on an outcome whose odds are 6-4 against a favorable outcome?

If you're happy living in a house full of cutesy chotchke crap, being told where to be and when to be there, getting laid once a month, having to remember a bunch of dumb dates wherein you are also expected to finance all the generosity of your SO, and gambling your financial security on 6-4 odds against, well, it's your life. I have higher standards for mine
 
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If you're happy living in a house full of cutesy chotchke crap, being told where to be and when to be there, getting laid once a month, having to remember a bunch of dumb dates wherein you are also expected to finance all the generosity of your SO, and gambling your financial security on 6-4 odds against, well, it's your life. I have higher standards for mine
Just a PSA for everyone... if this is what you think marriage is supposed to be, you might be creating your own problems. If you treat your marriage as a chore, you can’t complain when your partner says fuck it and breaks contact.

I obviously don’t wish divorce or hardship on anyone, but I’m not going to sympathize with people who make irrational decisions and get surprised by the end result. I grew up seeing the men in my family go through nasty divorces and the same for a lot of the dudes I was in with. Like lose literally everything nasty. Wouldn’t want anyone to go through all that, especially with kids. That being said, I can’t objectively state that a single case wasn’t doomed from the get go due to a shit pairing or a second/third marriage. This isn’t some master chef cooking show people. You can’t make a tiramisu out of a bag of fish heads and cat shit.

All that being said, shit does happen. People grow apart. That’s part of life. But a couple that “grows apart” doesn’t fuck one another over. Just because 60% of marriages end in divorce, doesn’t mean 100% of those are “the woman fucks the man over and life is unfair for men.” Of that 60%, how many were mutual and civil splits? How many of that 60% are comprised of one or more participants on a second/third/forth/fifth attempt at marriage? Also, there isn’t someone for everyone lol. There are a lot of men and women out there that aren’t just going to make it in a partnership. That’s life.

Best of luck to all. May you make quality and well thought out decisions when it comes to the biggest investment you can make in a lifetime. Just don’t be upset when you realize it doesn’t work because you’re trying to force the wrong thread pitch.

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I'll skip the tongue in cheek attempts at smartassery (since you're clearly missing the point of the Bear Pit here), and shift back into serious mode just a bit.

I appreciate that you are happy with your marriage. But respectfully, your experience is now far from the norm. There are a lot of reasons for this: Social breakdown, drugs, hollywood norming, women asserting their rights, bad behavior no longer being tolerated, and a legal system that effectively encourages women to divorce as a way of aquiring assets and which presumes men are always wrong, aren't important to their children's upbringing, etc.

I see that you are proud of having a good marriage, and brother, more power to you. But if you've been married long enough to brag about it, you're older, and got married pre-millenial/Boomer/etc. Women have changed, society has changed (not for the better).

So be happy, and enjoy you're good fortune, because you got lucky. Most people get married in their early to mid twenties = a time when they don't know squat about life, have little to no actual experience doing anything, and are completely incapable of judging other people's character. They'll learn, but it takes time and experience. Marrying at 2X is just rolling the dice. Since you're making your brag based on time served, I'm going to guess you were in your twenties when you married as well. So being smart, had jack-all to do with it. You kept your end of the marriage contract I assume, and so did she. Respect to you both. I wish mine had. I did.

There's been a tiny bit of progress, since "joint custody" is now becoming more common. But that's it. If you are male, and you end up in divorce court, you're screwed - whether you were a good father, observed your vows, etc. Your kids will be taken from you, and your money will be taken from you, and your role as a father will be taken from you, and there's dick all you can do about it. As a man, you are totally powerless in family court. You are a wallet with legs, and nothing more.

In my case, I married a girl from a good family, attended church regularly, had a degree in wildlife management, and was highly approved of by my parents. 10 years, and 2 kids in, she started fucking the next door neighbor, and I was completely clueless. Everything seemed totally fine and normal. Then she got arrested for fucking the neighbor in a Piggly Wiggly parking lot.

When the judge announced the decree, he started by telling me he was sorry, felt terrible, but State guidelines gave him little choice. He told my ex she was a despicable human being, then he awarded her full custody, total decision making authority over the children, and gave me a $750/mo child support payment ( I never missed a single payment, and it hurt).

You are in no position, as a man never experiencing it, to judge the realities of today's situation for men in general, or its participants. No tree fears the saw, until its turned into 2x4's.

Every marriage is different. Every divorce is different, for the same reasons. But at Family Court, the answer is always the same. Men get a raw deal, almost without exception. I wouldn't wish the experience on anyone, but it offends me to have someone who won the marriage lottery, and has no idea what we're all going through, to stand in judgement of the rest of us. You are not God, and judgement is not yours. Posting here about how much smarter-than-all you are, just makes you sound like a childish ass. I imagine you are not, hence taking time to respond honestly with you.

If you are happy, go kiss your wife and thank her. Then pray to god thanking him for your good fortune, and ask that he help the rest of us, because 60% of us need it, and so do our children.
 
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I'll skip the tongue in cheek attempts at smartassery (since you're clearly missing the point of the Bear Pit here), and shift back into serious mode just a bit.

I appreciate that you are happy with your marriage. But respectfully, your experience is now far from the norm. There are a lot of reasons for this: Social breakdown, drugs, hollywood norming, women asserting their rights, bad behavior no longer being tolerated, and a legal system that effectively encourages women to divorce as a way of aquiring assets and which presumes men are always wrong, aren't important to their children's upbringing, etc.

I see that you are proud of having a good marriage, and brother, more power to you. But if you've been married long enough to brag about it, you're older, and got married pre-millenial/Boomer/etc. Women have changed, society has changed (not for the better).

So be happy, and enjoy you're good fortune, because you got lucky. Most people get married in their early to mid twenties = a time when they don't know squat about life, have little to no actual experience doing anything, and are completely incapable of judging other people's character. They'll learn, but it takes time and experience. Marrying at 2X is just rolling the dice. Since you're making your brag based on time served, I'm going to guess you were in your twenties when you married as well. So being smart, had jack-all to do with it. You kept your end of the marriage contract I assume, and so did she. Respect to you both. I wish mine had. I did.

There's been a tiny bit of progress, since "joint custody" is now becoming more common. But that's it. If you are male, and you end up in divorce court, you're screwed - whether you were a good father, observed your vows, etc. Your kids will be taken from you, and your money will be taken from you, and your role as a father will be taken from you, and there's dick all you can do about it. As a man, you are totally powerless in family court. You are a wallet with legs, and nothing more.

In my case, I married a girl from a good family, attended church regularly, had a degree in wildlife management, and was highly approved of by my parents. 10 years, and 2 kids in, she started fucking the next door neighbor, and I was completely clueless. Everything seemed totally fine and normal. Then she got arrested for fucking the neighbor in a Piggly Wiggly parking lot.

When the judge announced the decree, he started by telling me he was sorry, felt terrible, but State guidelines gave him little choice. He told my ex she was a despicable human being, then he awarded her full custody, total decision making authority over the children, and gave me a $750/mo child support payment ( I never missed a single payment, and it hurt).

You are in no position, as a man never experiencing it, to judge the realities of today's situation for men in general, or its participants. No tree fears the saw, until its turned into 2x4's.

Every marriage is different. Every divorce is different, for the same reasons. But at Family Court, the answer is always the same. Men get a raw deal, almost without exception. I wouldn't wish the experience on anyone, but it offends me to have someone who won the marriage lottery, and has no idea what we're all going through, to stand in judgement of the rest of us. You are not God, and judgement is not yours. Posting here about how much smarter-than-all you are, just makes you sound like a childish ass. I imagine you are not, hence taking time to respond honestly with you.

If you are happy, go kiss your wife and thank her. Then pray to god thanking him for your good fortune, and ask that he help the rest of us, because 60% of us need it, and so do our children.
You take the words right out of my mouth. I got screwed like you.

I will add one more thing to what you said. More and more women, today, will act like chameleons. They will say one thing but be planning something else in the back of their minds.

They will promise to love, honor and obey but will add a caveat, in their crooked little minds saying; "until I get tired of him then I can always divorce him and take everything away from him."

As long as they know that they possess all the power, they will do whatever they want and you cannot do anything about it.

Just like you, I thought I had a good wife. She said and did all the right things expected of a wife until she felt like she didn't want to be a good wife anymore.

I obey the law because I try to be good person. I don't covet what someone else has; their wife, the possessions or their money. So I don't have a problem with lying, cheating or stealing to get ahead.

I will also admit that I obey the law because I don't want to suffer the consequences if I get caught breaking it.

Today's woman know that there are no consequences if she breaks her wedding vows and divorces her husband. She has everything to gain. Keep in mind that some women may start out wanting to be a good wife but when problems occur, the devil on her shoulders reminds her that the law and the courts are on her side. They has odds of 100-to-1 of getting what she wants in divorce court.

Even the women that have some degree of piety about them will rationalize and make excuses. 99% of them will say their husband was abusive.

This is important. So pay attention. Women have redefined the word "abusive."

To them, abuse is when a husband yells at them for any reason. Even if the husband is justified in ONLY yelling at his wife when she's caught cheating on them. For example:

John finds out Mary is behaving like a slut; blowing everyone in town but him. He's pissed. And he wouldn't be normal unless he was pissed.

He reads the riot act to Mary. However, she tells everyone, including her attorney that John was "abusive." To her sympathetic friends she will tell them that he yelled at her. Her fellow slut-sisters will agree that any husband who yells at his wife is "abusive."

What Mary leaves out is that John found out she was spreading her legs for the entire 7th Fleet. Her slut-sisters think he yelled at her for burning the toast.

Even if they know she has more sex than a rabbit with other guys, that doesn't matter cause, in their minds, John is "abusive."

That's a long winded example of how they try to take the moral high ground at the same time they are taking our bank accounts in divorce courts that they know are friendly to them.

To the gentlemen of SH that have a great wife, I'm glad for you. However, don't think, for one second, that you were the smart one and grabbed the best woman like you happened to grab the most accurate PRS rifle while everyone go the POS rifle that can't hold more than 4 MOA on a calm day. You probably just got lucky.

To the gentlemen of SH that have a great wife, you may also want to think again. She may seem like a great wife but might be doing a good job of hiding her nascent evil until she feels the time is right to call it quits with you. It doesn't matter if you have been with her for 30-40 years. I've seen married couples who have bee married that long and the wife calls it quits and lives comfortably for the rest of her life.

Remember that not all snakes rattle before they strike.
 
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There are few types of women:
1: All I want is benefits and money to spend. This motherfucker will make a home, get all the Gucci stuff for it, cook, clean, raise kids, fuck you a few times a week or more, and even get educated. She will do anything to not work.
2: This one is a hard charger. She works her ass off, saves money, looks towards the future, tolerates a man as long as he makes her hot, but easily tosses them away and changes as needed, and she knows money and not much else.
3: THOT. This motherfucker has a huge ass, maybe huge fake tits, titles all social media as 'Influencer' or 'Public Figure', and makes her living promoting her Venmo, Cash App, Patreaon, and other sites for thirsty mid life crisis guys to pay for video and pic packages, or to simply Venmo me sweety!
4: The mix of all the above...run

Most will go after No 1. Remember, the day you stop providing all the money to spend is the day she will take half of everything, then demand tribute on a monthly basis so she has 'money to spend'
 
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M8541Reaper

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You guys have opened my eyes and made me see that she could be playing me. So I just finished up waterboarding her in order to make sure she wasn’t planning on screwing me over. Was worried I’d run out of water and started using pumpkin spice lattes. She never cracked and had to be resuscitated twice (I always keep an extension cord with a stripped end handy for such occasions).

Shit happens, then we die. That’s life. Nothing more, nothing less. There is no god and there’s no reason to blame anything, good or bad, on an idea that was invented to control people (and dinosaurs).

Maybe I’m wrong. Maybe my wife is waiting to cut my dick off and take me for all that I have, to include the child. If it happens, it happens. Life goes on until I choke on an Auntie Anne’s jalapeño mall pretzel. Fuck it.
 
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There are few types of women:
1: All I want is benefits and money to spend. This motherfucker will make a home, get all the Gucci stuff for it, cook, clean, raise kids, fuck you a few times a week or more, and even get educated. She will do anything to not work.
2: This one is a hard charger. She works her ass off, saves money, looks towards the future, tolerates a man as long as he makes her hot, but easily tosses them away and changes as needed, and she knows money and not much else.
3: THOT. This motherfucker has a huge ass, maybe huge fake tits, titles all social media as 'Influencer' or 'Public Figure', and makes her living promoting her Venmo, Cash App, Patreaon, and other sites for thirsty mid life crisis guys to pay for video and pic packages, or to simply Venmo me sweety!
4: The mix of all the above...run

Most will go after No 1. Remember, the day you stop providing all the money to spend is the day she will take half of everything, then demand tribute on a monthly basis so she has 'money to spend'

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I'll leave you with this. YOU and ONLY YOU are responsible for the partner(s) you choose. Please don't project your poor judgment into the narrative the voices in your head feed you about mine. She was crazy when you met her, don't blame me that you couldn't see it through your raging hormone's need to fuck her right in the pussy. :geek:
 
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