You got it figured outHmm. As a confirmed bachelor, all I can say is whores are cheap, more fun in the sack, and gone when you bring home a new gun, or three more whores.
If you take a look at the fine print on your marriage license, it affirms that marriage automatically makes you henpecked married pussies beta males by default.
Now go mow your lawn bitch.
The operative word in your post is "fiancee". Expect her to be OK with about 60% (of what she is ok with now) on the day after you get married. Now, whether 60% is good or not depends on what you start with. Choose wisely.Man I gotta say some of the story's on this thread are making me really grateful for my fiancee... as long as I am responsible and dont cut into say a vacation fund or something for the family i can buy whatever I want and in return I respect her wishes about where I can xxx... relationships in this society are in the gutter because everyone is an entitled ass who has lost the ability to compromise and dont respect eachother anymore.
Nowadays, especially in a state like Illinois, the stay at home wife with 3 kids could be banging the gardener and still stay in the house with you paying for everything plus a little extra. Believe me, these women carry that around in their back pocket.
Depends on your waltz form hahaDoes it count as a sneaking in guns if you waltz in by your wife with a box that says ashbury precision ordnance shaped like a rifle she asks what is that another gun? I said sarcastically no. She said it says ordnance on the box. I said ammo then went to my gun room to privately fondle my new purchase.
My policy is I don't ask for permission.
Nor do I require her to ask permission. She can buy all the guns she can afford. P.S. we have been married 42 years.
Just an FYI, you didn’t blur out Becky Boo’s number.Actually, it works better like this.
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That's an actual response from Rebecca.
I had a rifle sitting out last night and she asked me if it was out because it wouldn't fit in the safe.
I told her I could probably get it in there but I might need to remove the scope.
She said we are probably going to need another safe if we're gonna keep buying guns.
I can’t think of a time I’ve been penalized by society nor can I recall a time that society has made anything stressful for me...unless you’re talking about shitty drivers lol. Sure, that’s not a meaningful sample size to make a blanket statement, but I’m willing to bet if each American male was objective with their response and media influence wasn’t a factor, you’d probably be hard pressed to find any meaningful national numbers that support what social media states.I love this woman. Real men get penalized for being real. The laws and the courts are against us.
What is surprising is that this lesbian writer sympathizes with men. She goes undercover as a man and realizes how stressful modern society has made it for males.
Divorced twice and female judges. I don't need to say anymore.I can’t think of a time I’ve been penalized by society nor can I recall a time that society has made anything stressful for me...unless you’re talking about shitty drivers lol. Sure, that’s not a meaningful sample size to make a blanket statement, but I’m willing to bet if each American male was objective with their response and media influence wasn’t a factor, you’d probably be hard pressed to find any meaningful national numbers that support what social media states.
...unless you’re talking about that asshole that gets mad because he’s yelled at in a Golden Corral because he grabbed his server’s ass and called her hunny. Then I’m sure he’d objectively state that your life is an example of how “men” can’t be “men” anymore.
But seriously though, the whole “men have it bad and it’s scary out there for real men now because we aren’t allowed to be real men anymore” is pretty stupid and risks becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dude mine calls me on my shit all the time haha! But yep, that's what it is all about man. ...Keeps me on my toes at the range as well lol
So you think your personal experience is a meaningful sample set? Maybe instead of bragging about what a cuck you are, and telling the rest of us we should be a cuck too, you might recognize that there are just as many female assholes (and potentially more) than there are male assholes. I'm happy your overlord turned out not to be a gold-digging bitch, or a narcissist, or whatever, but you aren't the norm buddy, you just have a total lack of experience that gives you no perspective on the issue, and no information to develop understanding.I can’t think of a time I’ve been penalized by society nor can I recall a time that society has made anything stressful for me...unless you’re talking about shitty drivers lol. Sure, that’s not a meaningful sample size to make a blanket statement, but I’m willing to bet if each American male was objective with their response and media influence wasn’t a factor, you’d probably be hard pressed to find any meaningful national numbers that support what social media states.
Who hurt you?So you think your personal experience is a meaningful sample set? Maybe instead of bragging about what a cuck you are, and telling the rest of us we should be a cuck too, you might recognize that there are just as many female assholes (and potentially more) than there are male assholes. I'm happy your overlord turned out not to be a gold-digging bitch, or a narcissist, or whatever, but you aren't the norm buddy, you just have a total lack of experience that gives you no perspective on the issue, and no information to develop understanding.
Several years ago before Her Ladyship left and I found out what it was like to be free again I had to sell some of my prized shooting irons.Quick question for all of the squat to piss bunch.
Does she check with you before buying a purse or another 300.00 pair of shoes?
While my above reply was a little heavy handed I was really trying to make a point.Several years ago before Her Ladyship left and I found out what it was like to be free again I had to sell some of my prized shooting irons.
I was practically in tears, walking out the door, to sell one of my cherished rifles to make ends meet each month. She had as much sympathy as a komodo dragon eating a baby chick.
She never bothered to sell any of the jewelry that I gave her. Not only that I found out that the Ice Queen was saving the money I gave her each month to divorce me. She was driving the car that I was making payments on to go get laid as well.
Life has a way of catching up to people like that. She's over the hill now and fat. She reminds me of the komodo dragon she emulated so much. She's bankrupt and can't pay her bills. She's aged so much that her face looks like hammered lead.
What surprises me is how fast she can go on her broom despite the extra weight she's carrying.
Me: I never knew what freedom was like till she left. I sleep like a baby at night. When I get up early, I'm rested, refreshed and thankful for my life.
I turn on all the lights in the morning and don't have to worry about being quiet and enjoy the coffee as I read the postings on SH then off to work or play with my guns!
Don't know if that answered your questions but I sure feel better!
A++ on the rantI haven't been married very long. but i've never had to ask my wife to buy anything. that's ridiculous. I have many friends who literally can't do anything/buy anything without running it past their wives first. And 90% of the time it's "no". it's embarrassing and they've become incredibly boring people who i don't really hang out with anymore.
the other day i was in my friends living room with him and his wife and literally in the same 15 minutes he got "denied" buying a cheap $150 rod/reel combo because his broke and then immediately his wife orders a pair of expensive earrings on the internet for a wedding this past weekend. i was floored.
what is it with these guys? why did you let yourself get into a situation like that where she controls everything you do? how is that fun? how is that a relationship? i guess i get it - everyone is different and people see things different. whatever then - better them than me.
"oh wait until you've been married as long as we have (wow 5 years: good job buddy) you'll know what it's like" - they say
miss me with that shit. not everyone's marriage has to be boring and miserable like yours. you stay inside and do pointless chores every weekend while me and my wife go do fun shit and make memories. you sorry sap.
I've had buddies miss coming to a FREE silencer/gun demo 10 minutes from their house because their wife wanted them to stay home for no reason.
i had a buddy miss a yearly memorial camping trip last minute because they needed to take professional christmas card photos with their wife. like dude - it's 2019 you have a perfectly good camera in your hand.
i wouldn't really care except later on i have to hear "man you get to do all this fun shit all the time. must be nice. i haven't fished in forever. i haven't shot my gun in forever. man you are gone every weekend shooting and stuff - that's awesome i'm so jealous."
i just laugh at them now. it's so comical.
i stress myself out because i try to plan and do all these unique activities and invite everyone and the damn excuses i get drive me crazy. and 98% of the time it's because of the wife stopping it.
I've asked these people before .... "when is the last activity you did that you WANTED to be doing. that you had a wholesome, fun, memory making experience?" usually they don't have an answer. Then they ask me the same question and i rattle off like every weekend of the entire year - all the stuff ive done. matches, camping trips, hiking trips, going to the lake, fishing, traveling, etc. they do 1 fun thing a year. it's a miserable existence - and usually it's their wife causing it for whatever damn reason i can't figure it out.
we are in are late 20's early 30's. we are still young, what a terrible trajectory to be on.
also - 3 of the people/couples i've mentioned - at least 1 person in each relationship is having to see a "specialist" for "depression/not finding value in life" One is even self-harming.
i've lost 2 parents to suicide - i take that shit seriously its not a joke. but come on folks - you are consciously making you and your significant other's lives miserable and can't figure why?
And how do you know how hard life is for the rest of us? What's the divorce rate now, 60% ? Most of us, are seeing a side of our legal system, you have not experienced. You are not qualified to make such a statement, nor opine on that which you know but little.Who hurt you?
The issue isn’t the number or gender of assholes. The issue is that life isn’t getting harder for men nor is it more stressful lol.
Just a PSA for everyone... if this is what you think marriage is supposed to be, you might be creating your own problems. If you treat your marriage as a chore, you can’t complain when your partner says fuck it and breaks contact.If you're happy living in a house full of cutesy chotchke crap, being told where to be and when to be there, getting laid once a month, having to remember a bunch of dumb dates wherein you are also expected to finance all the generosity of your SO, and gambling your financial security on 6-4 odds against, well, it's your life. I have higher standards for mine
You take the words right out of my mouth. I got screwed like you.I'll skip the tongue in cheek attempts at smartassery (since you're clearly missing the point of the Bear Pit here), and shift back into serious mode just a bit.
I appreciate that you are happy with your marriage. But respectfully, your experience is now far from the norm. There are a lot of reasons for this: Social breakdown, drugs, hollywood norming, women asserting their rights, bad behavior no longer being tolerated, and a legal system that effectively encourages women to divorce as a way of aquiring assets and which presumes men are always wrong, aren't important to their children's upbringing, etc.
I see that you are proud of having a good marriage, and brother, more power to you. But if you've been married long enough to brag about it, you're older, and got married pre-millenial/Boomer/etc. Women have changed, society has changed (not for the better).
So be happy, and enjoy you're good fortune, because you got lucky. Most people get married in their early to mid twenties = a time when they don't know squat about life, have little to no actual experience doing anything, and are completely incapable of judging other people's character. They'll learn, but it takes time and experience. Marrying at 2X is just rolling the dice. Since you're making your brag based on time served, I'm going to guess you were in your twenties when you married as well. So being smart, had jack-all to do with it. You kept your end of the marriage contract I assume, and so did she. Respect to you both. I wish mine had. I did.
There's been a tiny bit of progress, since "joint custody" is now becoming more common. But that's it. If you are male, and you end up in divorce court, you're screwed - whether you were a good father, observed your vows, etc. Your kids will be taken from you, and your money will be taken from you, and your role as a father will be taken from you, and there's dick all you can do about it. As a man, you are totally powerless in family court. You are a wallet with legs, and nothing more.
In my case, I married a girl from a good family, attended church regularly, had a degree in wildlife management, and was highly approved of by my parents. 10 years, and 2 kids in, she started fucking the next door neighbor, and I was completely clueless. Everything seemed totally fine and normal. Then she got arrested for fucking the neighbor in a Piggly Wiggly parking lot.
When the judge announced the decree, he started by telling me he was sorry, felt terrible, but State guidelines gave him little choice. He told my ex she was a despicable human being, then he awarded her full custody, total decision making authority over the children, and gave me a $750/mo child support payment ( I never missed a single payment, and it hurt).
You are in no position, as a man never experiencing it, to judge the realities of today's situation for men in general, or its participants. No tree fears the saw, until its turned into 2x4's.
Every marriage is different. Every divorce is different, for the same reasons. But at Family Court, the answer is always the same. Men get a raw deal, almost without exception. I wouldn't wish the experience on anyone, but it offends me to have someone who won the marriage lottery, and has no idea what we're all going through, to stand in judgement of the rest of us. You are not God, and judgement is not yours. Posting here about how much smarter-than-all you are, just makes you sound like a childish ass. I imagine you are not, hence taking time to respond honestly with you.
If you are happy, go kiss your wife and thank her. Then pray to god thanking him for your good fortune, and ask that he help the rest of us, because 60% of us need it, and so do our children.
There are few types of women:
1: All I want is benefits and money to spend. This motherfucker will make a home, get all the Gucci stuff for it, cook, clean, raise kids, fuck you a few times a week or more, and even get educated. She will do anything to not work.
2: This one is a hard charger. She works her ass off, saves money, looks towards the future, tolerates a man as long as he makes her hot, but easily tosses them away and changes as needed, and she knows money and not much else.
3: THOT. This motherfucker has a huge ass, maybe huge fake tits, titles all social media as 'Influencer' or 'Public Figure', and makes her living promoting her Venmo, Cash App, Patreaon, and other sites for thirsty mid life crisis guys to pay for video and pic packages, or to simply Venmo me sweety!
4: The mix of all the above...run
Most will go after No 1. Remember, the day you stop providing all the money to spend is the day she will take half of everything, then demand tribute on a monthly basis so she has 'money to spend'