And if she continues to be horrible she can get lost at sea.It time to buy an ocean worthy boat (it can be used), a small yacht, and work on fixing your marriage by taking long boat trips, just the two of you, great peace and solitude to be able to work things out, head to the islands. The boat will cost the same as a divorce
The country in which you register your yacht can have an enormous effect on whether or not the first 'missing person at sea case' involving your vessel is really investigated or not, so choose your country of registration carefully and happy boating.
Good attorney starts at $350.00 per hour times how long it takes to go through the divorce .
The other option is also $350.00 , but it's one time fee if you return it the same day.
I don't know, that is a pretty big hole to dig, with just a shovel. Then you have to fill it back in.......Dude. I’m so sorry.
Just see if you can do it without one.
If not, you definitely get what you pay for.
You need to push hard for counseling, the earlier you head that shit off the better, my wife refused to get counseling until I told her we were done and at that point the damage was done.My Mother Inlaw just move out of my house because she thinks i hate her guts, My wife has not be able to shot up about it. Heaven must be a place without women because this feels like hell.
Yeah, going back (or letting them back in......) is a really bad idea. Hell has one address, it doesn't leave her side just because she moved around.My buddy Kirk was a career Army officer, a great guy, husband, father, and married a long time, but the last 4-5 years of marriage he said there was no sex at all. She wanted a divorce and he didn't. After she was single for a few years and had been dumped a bunch by guys not willing to put up with her, she wanted to get back with Kirk- and he happily told her to F- off. I was proud of him for that. Karma is a beach.
^This is GREAT advice. My ex and I did ours ourselves and this was even with kids, house, retirement, etc. I am so thankful for that. Anything you can do to get her to see the value in this will be worth it. Good luck and things WILL get better.Damn man. Bummer.
And, having been through it and loving my life now, there is a good side.
Try to do mediation.
Mediators cost WAY less and help put all the BS into legalese.
Whore I used to be married to agreed to mediation, then went and got an attorney after we had most everything worked out. She later told me (shared custody or I would never talk to her) that she should have stuck with mediation and saved the money.
Buddy just finalized his, mediation the whole way and saved big bucks.
Best to ya. Again, it blows and getting YOUR life back for you is very nice. Some people are good to share it with and many not.